A Nigerian couple allegedly seeking the dissolution of their marriage caused a stir in a high court as a result of the way they chose to appear.
The man and his wife arrived at the court premises rocking matching outfits which left the judge wondering if they were serious about the divorce.
A photo from the court which is circulating on social media shows the couple standing beside eachother while wearing the same clothes.
The judge was said to have asked them if they really want to end the marriage because it looked like there was still a spark.
According to a tweep: “Judge said are you sure you want a divorce, because I can see a light.”
Couple Wears Matching Outfit To Court To Appeal For Divorce**
Recently, a photo went viral showing a couple in court to appeal for divorce—dressed in identical outfits. The image sparked reactions online, with many finding it both amusing and thought-provoking. When the couple appeared before the judge, their matching clothes led the judge to question their readiness for separation. The judge even suggested they go home, sleep in the same bed, and reconsider before the next hearing, highlighting how sometimes appearances can deceive.
In Nigeria, divorce is notoriously complex and slow. Many couples are required by law to undergo one to two years of separation before a final divorce can be granted. This process is designed to give both parties time to reflect, possibly reconcile, or ensure that the marriage is truly irreparable. While the intention is to prevent hasty decisions, critics argue that such delays can prolong suffering, especially in toxic or abusive relationships.
The conversation then shifted to a tragic real-life story involving a Nigerian nurse. Her husband funded her education, and out of gratitude, she gave him her first salary. However, he began to expect—and then demand—her entire earnings every month. When she tried to keep some money for herself, he became abusive, physically assaulting her and insisting, “I made you, I own you.” The oppression and control drove her into depression, affecting her work and leading to a fatal error at the hospital.
Eventually, overwhelmed and desperate, she prepared her husband’s favorite meal and acted as if all was well. That night, both were found dead in bed days later—an apparent murder-suicide. The story, reminiscent of a Tyler Perry drama, was heartbreakingly real. It raised questions about communication, boundaries, and the importance of seeking help before situations escalate beyond repair.
The discussion highlighted how, in some cases, divorce would have been a far better option than staying in a destructive marriage. When children are involved, the stakes are even higher, and the consequences of not leaving can be devastating. Relationship experts always stress the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and seeking support.
The nurse’s story illustrates that giving a partner your first salary as a gesture of gratitude is not wrong. Problems arise when gratitude becomes expectation and control. Communication is key—issues about money, roles, and boundaries should be discussed before marriage, not after. If a partner becomes abusive or controlling, it’s vital to seek help, whether from family, counselors, or legal authorities.
Returning to the Nigerian couple in matching outfits, the incident is a reminder of how difficult it can be to get a divorce in Nigeria. Judges may see couples who appear close and assume reconciliation is possible, but appearances can be misleading. The legal process involves separation, counseling, and sometimes mediation between legal teams to ensure both parties truly want divorce.
Ultimately, the story urges couples to have honest conversations before marriage and to seek help when things go wrong. For those in toxic relationships, leaving—through divorce or separation—is always better than risking lives. The viral court photo and the nurse’s tragedy both underscore the urgent need for reform in divorce laws and greater support for victims of marital abuse.
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